Yes, parasuicide and suicide attempts are sinful, stupid, and selfish acts, but they don't need 'you' to say it to the world they're doing 'kerja bodoh' because that makes the very reason they'd rather resort to other options than seeking your help for their own good. Because one will think every doc is too judgemental. Condemnation is never a good persuasion method. Even my own certified docs have never said such thing to me and you, as a doc-to-be should never have talked about it in such manner in the first place. Have more compassion and sensitivity.